First of all, he’s not a well guy. He has back problems. He’s got a pinched nerve. He’s got fibromyalgia. He’s in a lot of pain and he takes a lot of painkillers and other pills for other assorted problems. So I was patient and understanding at first. But he has been telling me lately that it’s impossible for him to sleep at night, which means he must sleep all day. And he’s been doing this for a couple of months now. And it’s getting worse … I used to see him for a couple of hours per day, but now, nothing.

We have a toddler with special needs that I watch all day. And more recently I’ve been trying to work during the day also, while watching her. I feel that he’s avoiding the responsibility, that he’s fine with watching TV all night while we sleep.

So it possible he actually has something else wrong with him? I keep telling him to mention this to the doctors, but he never does.